Female sexual arousal – one of the great mysteries of nature. If men are able to experience sexual attraction for a few seconds, and then, representatives of the beautiful half of humanity can only dream of. Unfortunately, not all men know how to turn a girl.
It is worth noting the main and obvious fact – all women are different. A young lady feel sexual arousal, you need several passionate kisses, another pair of familiar words, the third did not start without the massage stimulating.
And, nevertheless, the psychology, anatomy and life, the experience suggests that there is a standard, time-tested methods of excitation of the woman.
That is, a Hot girl? Languor in the whole body, hot pussy, fuzzy look – the signs of sexual arousal in women. The world around us ceases to exist in my head are no longer any sensible ideas. Animal instincts want to escape, the body requires continuity, and, most important, the dumping.
Signs of sexual arousal of the girls
As a general rule, a girl needs 15 minutes of the assets and liabilities of affection, of experiencing these feelings. How does this mysterious process from the point of view of physiology?
During the active sex, particularly stimulation of the clitoris and the Breasts, the blood arrives in the genitals. Appears the moisture between my thighs, increases the heart rate and body temperature, breathing quickens. Tense the muscles of the abdomen is another classic sign of the excited female body.
Male and female arousal – the distinctive features:
- In men, the attraction of the girl occurs quickly. A typical example: the street is a spectacular woman with a good figure. Mini skirt and high-heel shoes to highlight the beauty of your long legs. Brilliant, but not makeup, well-groomed hair, nice perfume... As many men looking at this seductress, feeling the sexual excitement? Yes, almost all!!!
- Women of all the more complicated and confusing. A man may be quite ordinary appearance, with a "beer" belly, bald very little to the athlete. However, it will be popular among women. Why? Because he knows that the psychology of women. This man is always at the top of sexual the Olympus.
Truth number 1. How to convert a girl? Give the impression of being a strong man. To create the image of the conqueror, the dominant.
A woman wants a strong man. Someone who can defend in case of danger. In this regard, modern ladies are not very different from their primitive predecessors. What that man had a dozen lovers, a few centuries ago? Who killed more than all the animals and enemies, who are the best hunted, who was the head of the house!
Body, factors of sexual arousal in women
And yet, no matter how hard man to please, girlish "rarities" in the emotional sphere, there are two women physiological factors that cannot be avoided:
- frequency of intimate contacts to women;
- day of the menstrual cycle.
If a woman has had a great opportunity in the sex, she is faster than its love counterpart. Nature requires that your body wants affection and a man touch.
However, we cannot exclude past sexual experience. Intimacy does not have to cause the girl nasty memories, and the stagnation in the sexual sphere must not be associated with painful associations.
Women in every period of the menstrual cycle have different levels of sexual desire. It is easier to convert a girl during ovulation and the most difficult, just before menstruation.
During ovulation a woman experiences great sexual desire. This is a natural phenomenon predetermined by nature. During this period easiest to become pregnant, because the woman is excited easily and without much effort from the couple.
Before the menses, on the contrary, the sexual desire is almost zero. The reason for this high level of hormones in the body, irritability, abdominal pain.
The course of psychology. The compliments, the conversations and the atmosphere.
A woman always appreciates a discreet, masculine attention. It flatters your vanity to help keep in shape. Most of the ladies do make up, visit beauty salons and buy sexy, but not slutty clothes to please men.
Truth number 2. No woman will stay indifferent to sincere compliments. Words of admiration excite!
Want to excite a woman? Express approval. A trivial phrase of admiration, and the woman wants to continue with the known. Especially appreciated the compliments on the appearance (otherwise, why follow him?). Good note and women's intelligence, modesty, a cheerful disposition.
Classic praise that never fails:
- "We have a very nice smile (nice eyes, soft hands)".
- "You're easy to talk".
- "You look great in this dress (jersey, cap)".
Male voice is a good help when excited girls. Deep, with a wheeze, it puts the woman on the right wave.
Truth number 3. To excite a woman, a man has to talk in a low voice, and clearly, not losing any opportunity to touch his partner.
Male interested in a desirable woman. Now you need to the chosen a sense of confidence in him. Because women perceive sex as something more than a natural need of the body. Mostly girls want to know your partner, to feel its power and reliability.
How a man can excite a woman? For simple and abundant conversation!
Truth number 4. Willing to excite a woman? Begin to ask your questions of a personal nature: that he likes for Breakfast, what clothes he prefers to use that most of the values of the people.
A woman can never be in a state of excitement, if she is uncomfortable in the presence of a partner. Less discomfort leads the communication process, the more likely it is that the men are to see the girls excitement.
If the relationship has already held in the company of chocolates and flowers, as a strong exciting factor will approach talking about sex. A short history of a sexual nature, and whispers in the ear, causing great sexual desire in women. Therefore, it is impossible not to mention the fact that men love to see a spicy scene, and women to talk about it.
Truth number 5. How to excite a woman? Invite her to a date, where will reign a great atmosphere.
A romantic date, where there is a stunning atmosphere, organized with the purpose of seduction. In the end good isolated meetings are always of a single sex.
Quiet music, the smell of flowers and flickering candles, soft drinks, snacks – a great atmosphere to the night, to the point!!! If during the day, the man behaves kindly, in order to keep the light conversation, a woman in these circumstances will surely feel sexual attraction.
The female head carried by thought: "What a brave, good man! For me it has worked so hard." The man who makes beautiful things, very exciting.
Touch and other exciting actions
The excitement of women is growing slowly, step by step. Especially with a new partner. Touch need discreet: to remove one of the tabs of the eyelid, he put his hand to the waist, to the entrance of the restaurant to correct the curl of the hair. So soft, second touch time played an important role.
Even the women as long contacts eyes. The man that looking into the eyes of the couple, experiencing interest. Perhaps even admiration, approval. The aspect should be warm, accompanied with a slight smile.
Truth number 6. Nearly all women are turned on by kisses on the neck and décolleté.
Kissing your neck, slowly at first, the language not to use. Better to start close to the right or to the left of the ear, gradually moving to the center. Then you can work. Lick a piece of skin of the neck, once, and dream to lick. You can bite gently, pinch the lips. And again gentle kiss.
Begins to caress the breast is from the top of the neckline, near the collarbone. Slowly sink down, to his nipples.
The nipples are a very sensitive organ. They should be treated especially gently. To circle the tongue around the nipple, gently press the lips, gently kiss you – some of these movements can excite the girl to madness.
Stimulate the breast massage can melt even the most "snow Queen". The contact must be safe, but smooth. Alternative to pinching, caressing, rubbing. Near the nipple it is best to limit stroking and rubbing.
A woman likes to feel in your body, strong male hands. This gives a sense of security and reliability.
Truth number 7. Many women very excited about the slow and delicate, of the internal part of the thighs and the buttocks.
Intimate caresses or kisses that should be done with caution. For a woman the arousal of the clit with the hand – this is unacceptable, and the other to be happy to apply this lesson. It is for this reason that, before going directly to the location, you need to check the soil. To draw the right conclusions about the character of the lady, way of upbringing, view of the world.
To caress the clitoris hand, men should be soft and warm. A soft, barely noticeable movement to touch the clitoris of a girl. In a second and repeat the movement. Touch the clitoris with your fingers, almost not noticeable. In the first place, we must act with care, slowly. Let the man of the hand for a few seconds lie between a woman's thighs.
Now you can caress gently squeeze the clitoris. To caress this gentle intimate part of the girl, the body rhythmically and gently. So, when the man alternates between stroking and squeezing. I imagine that the clitoris is the canvas and our fingers brush. Paint this picture, the diagonal lines, large and small circles.
The spontaneity, the men of the excitement and dedication
Women like variety in sex. This is especially true for couples who are already together for many years. The usual sexual script does not do: the night, the children put to bed, the darkness, a couple of kisses shy and directly to privacy.
A man who wants to bring a woman, should be able to dream of. Spontaneous sex after work right on the skin intriguing! Right in the hallway, revealing only the genitals. If the actions are accompanied by laughter or words, full of passion, the man does not even have to fondle a girl. To express the affection for the language and the hands for another occasion. A couple of passionate kisses on the lips, and the weak woman of the passion.
Truth number 8. Unplanned and intimacy excites a woman.
A man should never hide his excitement. A woman likes to watch the men's sexual desire. To be appreciated, and irreplaceable – this is the dream of all representatives of the beautiful half of humanity.
Truth number 9. A man can only tell you about your strong sexual arousal and a woman has to surrender to him.
The nature is so inherent that the woman likes to have a strong male shoulder. The woman who always dominates in the intimate sphere, afraid that the man does not bring her pleasure. Therefore, it is easier to take matters into their own hands, that the experience of disappointment, shame and dissatisfaction with a partner.
To summarize. In turn, a girl, you need to:
- act as a strong, confident man;
- create sex atmosphere is romantic and intimate;
- to make compliments;
- to be a gentleman, talking with your partner;
- don't forget to "accidentally" touch a woman;
- to show the imagination;
- have in your Arsenal with a wide range of strokes.
What not to do!
- be aggressive;
- speak loudly, to argue, prove their point of view;
- always silent;
- being poor in kisses and caresses;
- to think only of his own pleasure, to consider the woman as a sexual object.